I'm still in "catch-up" mode here. lol! Only a few months behind! I got a few pictures of Trace's first Easter. It rained that morning so we had to have the Easter Egg hunt indoors in our newly renovated student center. It was crazy and crowded so I didn't get any of the older three kids.
A branch of our local library hosted a "touch a truck" event two weekends ago. I took the kids last year, and we decided to go again this year. And, it was gorgeous weather that morning. A star-car group in Tulsa brought some of their personal cars out to show. Wouldn't this be fun to ride around in?
A man from the electric company talked about electricity safety. He cooked
a hot dog with the end of that little power line.
This is what happens to sand when a live power line touches it.
These two were the only originals there-the original fast and furious movie set cars.
I don't remember the name of this local band, but they were so nice to let the kids
come up and play instruments. Although Tristan was the only brave one of my group to go play.
The news on six storm chasing truck and Von Castor, a local storm chaser. He was
super nice and David stood and chatted with him a long time.
I thought I would go back and recap the birthdays that I didn't post, since I have been neglecting to post lately.
First up were Bailey and Bethany's back in March.
Bailey wanted a Frozen birthday and Bethany wanted to have a friend over. Since
their birthdays were close together and pretty much over the weekend we started on
Friday with homeschool ice skating. Then, a party on Saturday.
We had games and built marshmallow snowmen.
Bailey turned 6 and Bethany turned 13.
Next came Brooke's 12th birthday in April.
She wanted pink and zebra striped decorations, a sleepover
and to paint tshirts.
Tyler turned 18 in April, also! We had his birthday/graduation party in the gym at our church.
Then, there was this little guy's FIRST birthday in May!!
SADLY, I can't find any of the pictures from his party. I don't know where they are. I had them on my camera, but hadn't downloaded them, and that's the last I knew. Tyler took my camera to Spain and now they aren't on there. So, I thought maybe I had just taken pictures with my phone, but this was the only one. I'm sick over it.
Next came my birthday in June. The big 4-0. But, they're saying that 40 is the new 30, so no biggie. That morning Tyler called me from Spain. He didn't even remember it was my birthday, lol, but that just happened to be the only time he was able to call the whole two weeks, so it was a treat! David took me out to Chili's for dinner that night and Brittany bought me some travel bags for when David FINALLY(!!??) takes me on our anniversary trip.
So, that's it until later this month we'll have 4 birthdays in 5 weeks!
Well, as crazy as it sounds, I have officially graduated my second child from homeschool! Time really does fly by. I feel like we just started a few years ago.
Tyler didn't want to do any photos or announcements, but I pulled my "mom card" and said, "Yes. Yes you do." Here are two of my favorites from my little mini photo shoot. I just took the photos myself with my little camera and edited them.
Tyler also didn't want a ceremony or anything fancy. But, I wanted to do something nice for him, so we had a party in the gym at church. I think it turned out well and I know he appreciated it. We had pizza upon his request, little snack cakes and fruit.
I painted some dollar tree terra cotta pots with yellow and blue and
stuck pictures and star cut-outs on popsicle sticks.
Simple, inexpensive, yet nice.
I also made a few scrapbook pages for everyone to sign.
Everyone pretty much played four square the whole time.
Well, I guess this is the season of living a busy life and not blogging about it. Since my last post we've celebrated 5 more birthdays, a graduation, 2 missions trips (one taken and one about to take) one acquired driver's license, several car repairs, finishing up homeschooling, attempted house buying and then there's the normal taking care of a house full of 13 people.
So, yeah. Not much blogging.
Hopefully, I can blog more in the scads of free time I'll have over the summer since we are not homeschooling.
It's awfully hard to type sarcasm.
Does anyone else ever think that? "We're done with homeschool! On to the free time!" But, it seems like we end up busier than during the school year.
Seriously, my goal is to get my life a bit more on track and organized to hopefully make my life a bit easier. And, my plan is to update the blog. I can't always get done everything I want to get done, but we'll see how it goes!
I often think, "Twenty years just isn't long enough." We are at the point now where we just "get" each other. We each know what the other is thinking. We've figured out all the little habits and nuances of each other and I just enjoy being married to him. I enjoy the comfort of knowing all about him and the fact that he knows all about me. I pray everyday that the Lord would keep us together for many, many more years.
I think love is definitely a choice, and, after you've made that choice, it is work to keep loving.
But, I tell you what, the choice to keep loving is SO WORTH IT.
So many people enter into marriage expecting the other person to make them happy. And, expecting to selfishly get from the relationship instead of give. If that's what you think, I'll tell you right now,
YOU WILL NOT BE HAPPY. YOU WILL LOOK FOR A WAY OUT.
People are human. They disappoint. They are frustrating and difficult. You can't control another person, but you CAN CONTROL YOURSELF.
You can choose to love and serve your husband and you can choose to be happy about it.
Now, I'm not saying you have to be stuck in a miserable marriage and just be happy about it and endure it. I'm saying, if you are in a miserable marriage, have you considered why? Have you considered the reason you aren't happy is because of you, not him? You control how your react when your husband does something to frustrate you. You control how you react in an argument. You control expectations. Especially unrealistic ones.
Get control over yourself and you just may find that your husband makes you happy after all!
Some things that I choose to love about my husband..........
He can be gruff, but has a tender heart.
He is a protector. He is a supporter.
He is generous. Very generous.
He will try and make me laugh when I am stressed. He has different interests than I have. He enjoys talking to people. Anytime. Anywhere.
There are many, many more things that I love and appreciate about David. And in spite of all of my failings and disappointments, I know that he loves and appreciates me, too.